I have a friend who's on a relationship with the father of her child. Now he had a job up until about 2 months ago but he got laid off because the job was through a temp agency and you know how they do. According to her and him he's been putting in applications for jobs but he just hasn't been able to land a job yet. They were planning on relying on his income tax return, which is supposed to be for 5 grand, but it keeps getting delayed. So basically, they have no money and are at the point where they have to move back in with her mom. BTW he moved out here from Ohio to be with her so he has no family here but her and hers. Now, her mom and sister are telling her to leave him because he's not trying hard enough and she can do better. Mind you, she doesn't work and has NEVER had a job, she ever had to because her mom took care of her. When she got pregnant she was in beauty school, so their plan was that she'd finish beauty school and wait until the baby was at least 6 months old before she started looking for shops to work in so she feels as if he can't put any blame on her for their situation because they had a plan but he feels like she should have had a job... although he did agree to their plan.
Now, I PERSONALLY... feel as though she could do
better BUT she let this man move out here and it would be wrong to leave
him high and dry in a state where he has no one, no job, no car, no
place to stay (if she leaves him) and would just be completely assed
out. What advice should i give her on her situation? All opinions
welcome and thanks for any suggestions!
SpeekDaTroof: In my opinion it would be wrong to leave him high and dry, but at the same time she has to follow her heart. This is the type of sh*t that makes a person leary about relocating for love.
You never know when a person will just up and change their mind and leave your ass looking like a damn fool.
His mistake was relocating for a female who was not his wife or wasn't planning on being his wife. F*ck that boyfriend/girlfriend bullsh%t!
I feel if she doesn't want to be with him, she should at least allow him time to get on his feet so he can either find a place or get enough money to move back to Ohio with his family.
Leaving him assed out like that would be totally wrong on her part since she's the reason he moved there in the first place. You need to tell her to at least see him through this because if she wasn't going to stick with him for the long haul, she shouldn't have let that man make that move.
SpeekDaTroof: In my opinion it would be wrong to leave him high and dry, but at the same time she has to follow her heart. This is the type of sh*t that makes a person leary about relocating for love.
You never know when a person will just up and change their mind and leave your ass looking like a damn fool.
His mistake was relocating for a female who was not his wife or wasn't planning on being his wife. F*ck that boyfriend/girlfriend bullsh%t!
I feel if she doesn't want to be with him, she should at least allow him time to get on his feet so he can either find a place or get enough money to move back to Ohio with his family.
Leaving him assed out like that would be totally wrong on her part since she's the reason he moved there in the first place. You need to tell her to at least see him through this because if she wasn't going to stick with him for the long haul, she shouldn't have let that man make that move.
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